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Elder Mackinnon Lyman
Cote D'Ivoire Abidjan West to Texas Dallas West Mission
Tuesday, March 1, 2022
Saturday, August 7, 2021
Thursday, August 5, 2021
Homeward Bound
Oddly enough, this will be the last time that I have to apologize for my very infrequent email updates. I've had a lot of time to think and reflect over what I would write here and what I would like to express. There isn't anything that I can say to fully convey the wonder, the joy, and the love that I've felt as I've done my best to serve the Lord. But, there's one thing that I can say. I will never be able to thank my Father in Heaven enough for this experience.
Monday, June 28, 2021
Les Yeux Ouverts
I
thought that my last area in Koweït 1 was where I would be finishing my
mission. With transfer news being so unexpected, I'm glad that the Lord
let me work in Koweït for a few more days, just so I could say goodbye
to people and share my testimony one last time. I guess that I kind of
thought that since I was approaching the end of my mission, the
blessings that the Lord had in store for me would plane out. But, as He
has done time and time again, the Lord proved me wrong in that regard.
On Sunday, we went to the ward building, and were given the task of preparing and blessing the sacrament. Even though Elder Umoh is learning French, he said the prayer almost perfectly. It's been really cool to see how much trust the members already put in us. They've accepted us in a very happy and loving way. I'm so excited to be able to work with them and serve them.
Monday, June 21, 2021
Dawn of the Final Transfer (6 weeks remain)
It's been a fat minute. A lot has happened since I last wrote. I've still been with the same comp, Elder Kouadio in the same area, Koweït 1, up until this point. We've been teaching lots of people and helping them become converted. We've had so many lessons where the Spirit has filled our hearts to the point where we feel like we're on fire, and we've gotten to know so many wonderful people. It has been a huge blessing to come back here to Africa and serve here.
Tuesday, May 11, 2021
Long Time No See
Hey 好久不见. Sorry it's been a while.
Time here flies by so quick. The days and the weeks go by so quick. So so so fast.
After everything we’ve done during the day, we get back to the apartment and it is crazy to see how much time has passed. The days are over.
I was able to watch the Saturday afternoon session, and the last 3 speakers of the Priesthood session. And President Nelson’s talk in the Sunday morning session. That was all I was able to watch with how they were distributing it. I’ve been going through talks when we have time. It was a really good conference. The talks have been awesome. One of the talks that probably touched me the most was President Eyring’s talk in the Saturday morning session about temples. There was a phrase in there that really hit me. He said something about how he wants to prepare us, to remind us of the importance of temples to prepare us for the temple experiences that are coming for us. When I heard that it reminded me of some things I’d been counseled about, and it got me thinking that I need to make temple worship a consistent part of my life after my mission. I haven’t thought much about after the mission. I’m pretty laid back and feel that whatever comes comes, but now I am thinking about how am I going to continue my discipleship after my mission. What is going to be most important. How I am going to continue with my goals and spirituality, and stuff like that.
Now, I'll try to give some insight on this place.
Transfers came on Saturday and I'm staying here in Koweït 1 with Elder Kouadio. I kind of wanted to leave so that I could see some different parts of the mission, but after giving it some thought, there's no way I'd want to leave. This ward and sector are the absolute best. I love the members and the amis here so much.
I'll try to give you an idea of how life is here. We live on the 4th floor of a pretty nice apartment building. Our apartment is small, but it's pretty nice. Because we live on the 4th floor, it does mean that we have to frequently walk up and down a couple flights of stairs, but there's a really nice constant breeze that comes. Also. There are no rats. No cockroach armies. HUGE plus. I'm so glad that we don't have to wage war here like I had to in Vridi.
The view from the apartment |
Our power cuts out once every couple days, ranging from 15 minutes to 48 hours. It kind of really sucks when that happens, but it's manageable.
Each morning, we go downstairs and buy a baguette with chopped hardboiled eggs, beans, cow liver, and sauteed onions in it, along with this juice called menthe au lait (I know it's wack, but that's the best option we have here haha).
baguette with chopped hardboiled eggs, beans, cow liver, and sauteed onions in it, along with this juice called menthe au lait |
For the other meals, sometimes Elder Kouadio makes some sauces like arachide (peanut sauce) or djumbilé (some dried okra sauce). When we don't cook at the apartment, we usually have garba or porc au four (pork head. kind of the actual worst. I could go on about it for a while). The food is pretty alright, although I do have times where I want some food from home.
That's as far as living conditions go really. I could explain more, but I hope that gives some insight.
In our sector, there are 3 different areas. The area that our apartment is in is called Agbayate, the area that's across the ravine is called Koweït, and the last one is called Santé, which is the area kinda down next to the lagoon. They're all in our sector and are in a mile radius to our apartment, but the people are very different in each area.
- Santé is a nicer area with bigger churches. Most of the people that we've interacted with so far there are bashers.
- Agbayate is full of bigger apartment buildings and at least 20 different churches. Most people in that area haven't been very interested.
- Koweït is the poorer section of our sector, and is where the majority of our amis are. They are a lot more receptive there.
I saw the same results in my comparison between Flower Mound and Dallas back in Texas. I won't talk about it too much, but I just think that the correlation between income and humility is really interesting.
We have a lot of really awesome amis here right now. La famille Soya is still wonderful. The parents are still working towards marriage, but are already firm in attending church and participating in church activities. Their 2 youngest kids were baptized on the 24th last month. It was a great experience. We're continuing to work with the other kids, but they're hard to catch. I love that family so much.
Prunelle and Emmanuelle soya |
Some other people that are preparing for baptism:
- Sr & Sephora Yao. Sr Yao is the wife of the stake clerk. I don't know why she hasn't joined the church yet, she is very prepared and ready to hear the gospel. Her 9 year old daughter, Séphora, is also very prepared, and sometimes is really funny. Their baptism is scheduled for the 29th this month.
- Sr Kahi. She is the wife of a recent convert, and has recently started to become more interested in the church. We've put a lot of effort into teaching her and helping her understand. Her baptism is scheduled for June 5th.
- Sr Loua. She is someone we found 3 weeks ago. She has a really simple faith and understands really easily when we talk about the gospel. She is awesome. She should be reached for the 29th.
- Aurelia & Ange. They are two 13 year old girls that live in the same building as Sr Kahi. They progress really well, and understand easily the things that we teach. They're set for the 29th as well.
There are so many wonderful examples of faith, love, and devotion here. Those are just a few people that are progressing well. This place is the best place on earth.
Me personally, I'm just trying to do my best to serve the Lord these last couple months. It gets harder every day to stay focused, but I do my best to work as hard as I can. I'm so grateful that the Lord gave me the blessing to return here. There is no place I'd rather be right now.
The people here continue to amaze me every day. They have such a simple faith in the gospel, as well as a firm determination to live it. One time, one of our amis was coming to the church for a lesson when her sandals broke. She walked on the hot asphalt all the rest of the way. A couple Sundays ago, one of our recent converts had an extremely swollen ankle, which made it difficult and painful to walk. Yet, she made it to church on time, a couple minutes before 7. Yes. Church starts at 7:00 am. Multiple families have given us meals when they barely had any food to feed themselves. There's so many other experiences like that that happen from day to day.
I love the people here so much. It's kind of weird to me that someone love a people and culture in general more than individuals found within. Often, I find myself at our balcony watching people walking, just going about their daily activities. Then, I have a certain feeling in my heart as I remember that each one of those people is a daughter or son of God, and that He loves them so so much. I really do love the people here with all my heart. It's going to be really hard to leave.
As I wrote that, I was reminded of a scripture:
"He doeth not anything save it be for the benefit of the world; for he loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own life that he may draw all men unto him" (2 Nephi 26:24).
Christ is the absolute greatest example of love. It's impossible for me to understand, but I imagine Him right before coming down to start His life on earth. I imagine Him looking at the people on the earth, who He was about to sacrifice himself for. I'm sure He saw the scope of sins, hate, despair, sufferings, and fallen state of the people at that time, and of humankind in general, that He was about to take upon Himself.
Yet, when He looked down, He didn't turn back. He came down and pushed through the torture, suffering, and agony that came with being the Savior of the world. He went through all that He did because His divine love for us outweighs the ocean of our mistakes and sins. We can't ever completely understand Him and how He atoned for us. All that we can do is repent, try and help others, and stand in wondering awe of the Son of God.
I love Him, and I love the people here. I'm so grateful that I can continue to walk with my Savior in doing His work. I will never be able to repay him for the experiences that I've had, for the things that I've learned, or the love that I've felt. I love you guys as well. Have a great week!
Elder Lyman
MLC |
Tuesday, May 4, 2021
Le Blanc
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
Oh it is Wonderful!
So,
not much has changed since the last time I wrote. And a lot has as
well. As far as the constant grind, nah that's still the exact same.
Working hard, all day, every day. Awesomeness.
Then, of course a
lot has changed, in the sense that our amis continue to progress.
There's so many people here that are ready and prepared to hear the
gospel. Right now, we currently have 6 people on date for baptism, and
we're planning (hoping) to have more this week as well. Prunelle and
Emmanuel, 2 of the kids from the famille Soya are being baptized this
Saturday. Things are going good.
Just a quick addition. The past
couple weeks with Easter and general conference having happened, I've
been thinking a lot about the resurrection and the Savior's Atonement. I
had written out a long explanation of how I felt, but I realized that
there was a really easy way to express my thoughts and feelings. Hymn
#193
I stand all amazed at the love Jesus offers me,
Confused at the grace that so fully he proffers me.
I tremble to know that for me he was crucified,
That for me, a sinner, he suffered, he bled and died.
Oh, it is wonderful that he should care for me
Enough to die for me!
Oh, it is wonderful, wonderful to me!
I marvel that he would descend from his throne divine
To rescue a soul so rebellious and proud as mine,
That he should extend his great love unto such as I,
Sufficient to own, to redeem, and to justify.
Oh, it is wonderful that he should care for me
Enough to die for me!
Oh, it is wonderful, wonderful to me!
I think of his hands pierced and bleeding to pay the debt!
Such mercy, such love and devotion can I forget?
No, no, I will praise and adore at the mercy seat,
Until at the glorified throne I kneel at his feet.
Oh, it is wonderful that he should care for me
Enough to die for me!
Oh, it is wonderful, wonderful to me!
I
love this hymn. It expresses perfectly my thoughts and feelings. How
would the Son of God descend from heaven to suffer, bleed, and die for
someone as lost, weak, and unworthy as me? It blows me away. I'll never
completely understand it. But, it does give me reason to always, always
thank Heavenly Father for His Son and what he has done for me.
Have a great week!
Elder Lyman
Climbing a tree to pick oranges. |
oranges...
Caught in a rainstorm while tracting.
Monday, March 22, 2021
Lost in the Work
Okay I actually have less time to write this week than last week.
It's going to be hard to not repeat myself, but honestly it's amazing to be back here. Last week passed in the blink of an eye. Lost in the work is such a good feeling.
Sorry if I use French words. Sometimes it just makes more sense that way.
We had zone conference this week (it feels like ages ago). It was really good. It had been a long time since I'd had zone conference in person, and even longer since it'd been here with President and Sœur Lewis. The Spirit was really strong there.
Some of our amis that are progressing the best is la famille Soya. It's a family that has 9 kids I'm pretty sure. I love them so much. The parents and a few of their kids have been pretty consistently attending church each week, and tonight we taught a wonderful lesson with them. We taught l'évangile de Jésus Christ, or the Doctrine of Jesus Christ (I think) and read Mosiah 5. When we asked them to be baptized, they were happy and excited to. The Spirit was so strong as we talked with them. One thing though, Fr and Sr Soya aren't legally married yet. They'll be married in June, so they'll have to wait. I hope I'll still be here to see that happen, but we'll see. Either way, as long as they are firm in their knowledge and testimony of the gospel, that's what matters most.
La famille Soya |
...
Now I want to
talk about someone that I love very very much.
Elder Assale told me that this ward was amazing and that they work really well with missionnaires. I quickly found out why. Our ward mission leader, Fr Oulaï, is one of the most Christlike people I've ever met. I've been working with him for just a month, and I've already learned a lot and grown just from his example. I don't know all of his story as well as I'd like, partially because of français, but here's what I know.
That is Frère Oulaï in the forefront |
I don't know how many years it's been, but he converted to the church a while ago. From what I understand, there was a point in his life where he started to search for truth. He went to many different churches, and even tried Islam and Buddhism. He spent a couple years in search of truth. Eventually, he found the missionaries, and discovered the truth he was looking for.
A couple years after that, he was living with a woman (now his wife) and they were working towards marriage. They saved up enough money for la dote(similar to a required dowry), but then he was paralyzed. I'm not sure what situation he was in medically, but from what I understand, for a year he couldn't move or talk. After a year, he slowly rehabilitated, and was able to function properly again.
They had to get ready for marriage again by saving up money. It was then that Fr Oulaï found out that living together before marriage wasn't in compliance with God's commandments. So, for the next year, he slept outside. Basically, he chose to be homeless to keep that commandment. The amount of devotion and love he had is really amazing to see.
Now, they're married and sealed together. They live in the poorest section of our area, with a house similar to the ones I described next to the lagoon in Vridi. Dirt floor, black trash bags for walls, and sheet metal roofing. Their home is 1/2 the size of my bathroom back home. They basically have nothing. Fr Oulaï doesn't have a job anymore, and I don't think Sr Oulaï does either, at least they don't have consistent incomes at all. They actually live from day to day.
And yet, despite their complete lack of money and possessions, they're always happy, always smiling. Fr Oulaï works with us 2 or 3 days a week, for 10 hours a day. And even then, when he isn't working with us, he's street contacting people all the time. He's someone who truly loves the Lord.
After we talked with them and they recounted their history, Sr Oulaï fed us dinner. They're scraping by as it is, and they chose to feed us.
On Saturday, Elder Kouadio and I were going back to the apartment after a meeting for lunch, Fr Oulaï tagged along with us. Our apartment didn't have water for a while, so the dishes had really piled up in the kitchen. I was planning on washing the dishes, but Fr Oulaï just started doing them himself. He did a couple days worth of dirty dishes just because.
He never ceases to amaze me. I love him so so much. And his wife too, she's amazing as well. But especially Fr Oulaï. People like that deserve so much more than they deal with. It breaks my heart. But it also makes them be such an incredible example for me. I love them so much.
I almost forgot to mention it, but next week we'll be having a baptism. Sr Martine Lida was someone that Elder Assale taught for a long time and she's finally ready. I'm excited for her to be baptized.
Soeur Martine Lida |
Yeah I don't know what else to say. I'm happy to serve, learn, and help. When you lose yourself in the service of others is when you truly find yourself. Love you guys. Have a great week!
Elder Lyman
Friday, March 19, 2021
La Terre Promis
Okay, I don't have too much time to write this week. But I'll write what I can.
This week was just like the last, nonstop work. It feels so good to be back and always have somebody to help. There's always an ami, a missionary, or a member that I can be thinking about and wondering how we can serve them, what will help them progress, or what way we can bless their life. This place is the terre promis.
Elder Assale finishes with his mission tomorrow right after zone conference, so I have another companion with me right now. His name is Elder Kouadio. He's from Yamoussoukro (no idea how that's spelled), Côte d'Ivoire. He's been out for about 4 months now, and seems awesome so far. I'm excited to work with him.
Departing companion (Elder Assale) is next to Elder Lyman, new companion (Elder Kouadio) is on the far left. |
We went on exchanges with the assistants this week. It was so wonderful to work with Elder Diaz again. The entire day went so smoothly, and I really felt the Spirit as we worked. It was good to see him again.
Elder's Lyman and Diaz working together again |
There have been tons of other experiences that I was intending to share, but can't right now. Maybe I'll save them for next week.
I'm just so happy to be back with my people and be serving le Seigneur. Despite all the difficulties and struggles, this has been and continues to be the best experience I've ever had in my life up until now. I've come to know so many things that I didn't before, or at least didn't have a clear testimony of before. Foremost of those being that God does exist, and that Jesus is the Christ, he sacrificed himself for us in the ultimate expression of love, and that in following his council, we can return to live with our Heavenly Father.
Love you guys
Elder Lyman
Thank goodness for water filters. |